Me to a T

I'll be up front with you--
I do not think I am as strong as any man physically.
I do not think women and men are equal in all ways.
I do not think men are the sole creators of sexual violence.
I think women do need to be responsible for how they trigger sexuality.
I do think that what we wear can invite or dissuade attention.
I do not think women should have so much control over their bodies that it infringes upon the rights of others (meaning, a fetus or the father of the baby.)

However...I do believe that
-women should be paid equally to men based on merit (as in....if women soccer players cannot generate the same profits as men's soccer, then they shouldn't get paid the same...but if I'm doing the same work generating the same results, I should get paid as much as the men.)
-women are partners in a marriage, home, family, any relationship.
-women are just as brilliant (I can run circles around most people when it comes to intelligence.  Yes, sorry, but I can.)
-I should be allowed to live my life the way I want, not dictated by anyone, certainly not by a man.  Ugh, I really have little respect for people that allow someone to control them against their wills.

I'm telling you all this because of the simple fact that I live to please my husband.

YES!
I live to please him because IT MAKES ME HAPPY.
Say that again?
IT MAKES ME HAPPY.

I love being loved by him, being worshiped like a queen by him, and having him state to anyone that he has the Best. Wife. Ever.  (that's how he texts it--delish, right?)

Has your partner ever said that about you?
Over and over again?

So, I'm here to help.  I will relate my sexploits with him, not in vulgar specificity, but in ways that will help you step outside your comfort zone a bit.  And I direct this to any side of the partnership--all can benefit if the need is there.  You may say, Why can't my wife be like that?  And I'll say, This is why...now do something to change it!  You may say, Why doesn't my husband seem pleased at any given time of the day to hear from me?  And I'll say, Here's what you can do to change that.

Will it all work 100% of the time with 100% of the population?  Mmm, probably not, but if you can glean one little thing from me to set your relationship up on a higher level, then it's worth the effort, right?  After all, I'm not a 20-something, thin, exercise and make-up junkie.  I'm an every-woman (okay, probably lean more to the exceptional on looks versus average) who doesn't spend tons of money on myself.  On the contrary, I spend my free time with HIM...and that's secret #1.